Gather Round - The Virtues of a Round Dining Table

My parents started their marriage buying an entirecould look each person sitting at the table in the
house full of Early American-style furniture. Theeye. And it was easy to slip a spare chair and a
centerpiece of our home was a round dining table.high chair to a round dining table.
We had years when its drop leaves were rarelyMy mother decided on a dinette set similar to
propped up, except for Thanksgiving or Eastermine in her retirement condo; she didn't really
dinner. Other times, we ate weeknight dinners,need seating for eight any more. Our family's
worked on school projects, and finished Halloweenround dining table was handed down my youngest
costumes on its 70-inch surface.brother who was just starting out on his own.
Although my mother loved her round dining table,I moved into a new home, and my new square
she was frustrated by how few tablecloths shedining room accommodated my existing furniture
was able to find with a 90-inch diameter. Whenwell. But a few years later, I bought a vacation
she found a tablecloth that fit, she used it forhome, and used that as an opportunity to move
every event, year after year.out some of my well-loved and well-used
Many years after I was out on my own, I wasfurniture, and refurnish my everyday home. I
traveling for business. I entered a restaurant bydidn't hesitate when it came to the dining room-a
myself, ready to take a small table in the cornerfound a round dining table, resting on a pedestal, in
and enjoy dinner on my own. But when I told thea rich espresso finish. Its contemporary lines
hostess, "party of one," she asked me if Iupdated a traditional style.
wanted to join the group table. I had never heardMy round dining table has a unique feature. While
of such a concept, but there it was in the middlemy mother's table had leaves that turned its
of the restaurant-a round dining table, bigger thanfamiliar round top to oval (it seated 12 easily
Mom's-where solo diners could join a group andwhen she did that), my round dining table came
enjoy some companionship over dinner. I lovedwith four leaves-each in the shape of a quarter
the idea! Why didn't more restaurants do this?circle. I pull recessed support rods out from the
My time came to buy a dining table, and I chose aapron of the tabletop, rest an arc-shaped leaf on
contemporary rectangular table (no tableclothtop of the supports, and clamp it securely into
issues for me, I actually thought) in solid cherry.place. When I do that for each of the four
But when it came to furnish my breakfast nook, Iquarter-circle leaves, and I expand the tabletop
didn't hesitate to select a glass-topped roundfrom 60 inches to 72 inches, and I can seat eight
dining table. It was smaller than my mom's, andpersons rather than six.
looked nothing like hers, so I was confident that IIt's funny that I actively avoided choosing a piece
was making choices that were my own.of furniture that resembled that my mother
I immediately saw the virtues of my new roundmade a center of her home. I wanted to establish
dining table. The round dining table changed thea household that was uniquely mine. But I ended
dynamics of the dinner table-everyone sittingup being happiest with a choice first made by my
there was easily engaging with everyone else. IMom.