Save to Live - Don't Live to Save - Saving Money Ideas

My wife and I had planned an outing for ourthat we would have to get something to eat, and
family over the weekend to visit a festival thatfrom the looks of it, we would be paying full price
was being held in one of our state parks. It wasfor wherever we went.
your garden variety festival, one where all typesWell, not soon after, I "mentally" stopped and
of different vendors set up their tents to sell theirtook stock of the situation. If I let this building
food or their arts and crafts. The home-made"stress" of mine get to me, the whole outing
fudge and the hand woven figurines, so on and sowould be ruined. Then, as I thought more about
forth.the situation, I thought, you know what-who
Of course, whenever we decide to go to thesecares?
types of things, we at the very least pack aI have jumped in head first to the whole rebate
good deal of snacks, if not a complete lunch. Wecoupon/shopping for good deals game, and I have
do this for two reasons. First, because the pricessaved myself and my family an immeasurable
for food at these festivals is ridiculous andamount of money over the past several months.
second, most of the time they don't have foodSo now I am presented a situation where I know
that were interested in (we usually try to eat onlyI'll have to pay full price. Once again, I soon said to
healthy foods).myself-who cares?
So anyways, we packed our picnic basket andNow that I am firmly on track financially and
off we went. Well, if you know anything aboutusually don't miss a deal with anything that I buy,
Atlanta, you know that a traffic jam can pop upit is easy to let this mindset take over your life.
at any time, and sure enough, we foundReally, it is. One can easily stay up till the wee
ourselves stuck right in the middle of a doozy. Ithours of the morning looking for every last deal
was a Saturday afternoon but from the looks ofon every last thing that you buy. Well, if you let it
this thing it was a Friday at 5:00 o'clock. We didn'tget to this point, I think it takes away from the
move for about 15 minutes.quality of the life that you are living.
It soon became apparent that we would miss theI try to save as much money as I can so I can
entire festival if we decided to wait out the trafficget closer to living the life that I want to, but I
(we got a little bit of a late start).also understand that sometimes you just need to
So, we had to go to Plan B. And Plan B wasforget about it. Of course, I don't mean abandon
visiting our favorite downtown shopping district.the mindsets and attitudes that got me to this
With this new plan, obviously there really wouldn'tpoint; I just mean that I refuse to let it overtake
be a place to set up our picnic food and sit downmy life.
and enjoy it. Well, I 'm sure we probably couldFor all the money that I have saved over the
have but it would have looked quite strange.past several months-ONE trip to ONE restaurant
All of a sudden I felt this stress building inside ofpaying full price is not going to kill me.
me. Normally, when we visit this spot, we almostI managed to wash these thoughts away from
always make sure to eat first so were notmy mind; we all strolled into one of these upscale
tempted to buy food at this place either. Therestaurants, sat down and had a wonderful meal.
restaurants are good but fairly upscale so onceWonderfully overpriced, but a wonderful meal. So
again, the food is a little pricey (of course, wewhen formulating your list of saving money ideas,
have visited their restaurants, but only when welife your life first, then save your money.
have a coupon). My stress came from realizing