Vegetarian Kids Need Summer Child Care, Too

Until last summer, my vegetarianism has neverlunch, and it would interfere with their reports and
really made me feel marginalized, even though wetheir finances to a small extent. Most programs
live in a community without vegetariancount on the meal reimbursements to help pay
restaurants, and I do not know any otherfor their programs and figure the meal
vegetarian families in town. I admit that I havereimbursement into the equation. Just taking the
even found stories about how persecuted othermeat out of their lunch and letting me provide
vegetarian parents felt to be a little maudlin atthem with a substitute for that part was also
times. Sure, my relatives have handed sausage tofrowned upon. They worried that such
my toddler (she fed it to the dog), teachers haveshenanigans would get them in trouble. Also, it
tried to get her to make lunchmeat snowflakes,would mean more work for them. That sounds
and I've faced pressures of various kinds. But Iawful, but it must be understood that most
have never seen this as a big problem. I havechild-care providers are underpaid for the cost of
always felt pretty free to live our lives by ourthe service they provide, understaffed due to
values and have not worried too much about thethese funding issues and very heavily regulated.
way that other people eat or wish that we ate.While I badly needed them to try to be more
Last summer, however, I encountered some realflexible, I also could understand their point of view,
barriers, and I am feeling a lot more sympatheticgiven the regulations of the Food Program.
to the concerns that I have heard fellowThis left me with a very big problem, indeed. We
vegetarian parents express over the years.needed summer child-care and my daughter
My daughter has always been in child-care due toneeded a healthy, vegetarian lunch every day, but
my need to earn our living, but combiningI found the regulations made that nearly
vegetarianism and child-care had never beenimpossible. Thankfully, I eventually did find a
difficult for me until my child reached elementaryprogram that was not hung up on their
school age. Was I ever surprised at what Ireimbursement numbers and was willing to let my
discovered! What I have found is that almost alldaughter bring a lunch from home to circumvent
of the summer child-care providers forthe lack of a philosophical exemption from the
school-aged kids in our community use the USDAmenu...only one, though. This adventure has made
Food Program, a federal program that reimbursesme aware of the need for a little social action on
child-care providers for the cost of the meals thatthis issue. We were very lucky to find a program
they provide to the children. I knew this; manythat could afford to be flexible and not everyone
other child-care settings use the program, too,in our situation will be so fortunate.
and I am a social worker and consider myselfMost summer child-care programs for school-aged
fairly knowledgeable about these things. I did not,children are dependent on the reimbursements
however, know it would cause my familythey receive and cannot afford to go without
problems.very many of them. The high expense of
Upon approaching potential child-care providers andproviding child-care is why programs like the
mentioning that my daughter was vegetarian andUSDA Food Program exist in the first place. Not
would need a vegetarian lunch or for me to packbeing reimbursed for one child might not be a
her lunch from home, I was told that I wouldheavy burden to them, but they do have to think
need a note from a doctor for her to be allowedabout the big picture. If lots of children started
a "special diet." I explained that being a vegetarianrequesting "special diets" for which they would not
was not a medical condition so I would not bereceive reimbursement, the child-care providers
able to produce a note saying that it was. Theymight be in real financial trouble. Child-care
said that only medical and religious exemptionsproviders receiving government subsidies also
were allowed. Could I get a note from myface real concerns about perceived discrimination
church? Well, my belief in vegetarianism certainlyissues ... what constitutes a good reason to allow
coincides with the simplicity testimony of thea child to eat a non-reimbursable lunch and what
Religious Society of Friends but not all Quakers,doesn't? They are between a rock and a hard
by any means, express the simplicity testimonyplace, too, just as my family is, unless the USDA
by becoming vegetarians as I have done. My clerkchanges its reimbursement rules.
might have written me a note discussing thatThere is a need for the USDA Food Program to
connection, but it seemed a shaky sort ofinstitute a philosophical exemption for menu
religious ground to me. What we really neededchanges in child-care settings so that vegetarian
was a philosophical exemption, and these are notschoolchildren do not end up being excluded from
allowed according to the federal regulations thatsummer child-care placements due to this snarl of
govern the program.regulations and reimbursement needs. A child
Under the USDA Food Program, child-careshould not have to violate her principles or go
providers can serve a vegetarian diet to all ofhungry because she needs child-care, but,
their children; they just can't serve a meat-diet tounfortunately, that is how the system is currently
some and a different diet to others without aarranged under the USDA Food Program. I believe
medical or religious exemption, because it isthat we can fix this. Please write to your
considered discrimination. I spoke to a state levelCongressional Representative and Senator and
administrator in the program and she confirmedencourage them to legislate that the program
that this is true. It was clear from ourinclude a philosophical exemption in childcare
conversation that she was aware of the problemsettings so that vegetarian meals can be provided
I would face and unhappy about it. She talkedto vegetarian children. Such a change would allow
about the program being behind the times and thechild-care providers to be reimbursed for providing
need for change. I felt sure that the child-carethose meals without fear of repercussions. This is
providers and I could come up with somethingnot, of course, the sort of issue that many
workable, but this official knew better. She hadmembers of Congress are going to embrace as a
obviously seen this unfold before.cause, but they should be willing to make a
I certainly did not feel that they were obligated toregulatory change that increases the convenience
fix something different for my daughter, and Iwith which their own constituents interact with
have always been willing to fix her food myself,the Food Program if their own constituents ask
but most of the summer programs were notthem to do so. Please ask them. Vegetarian
open to the idea of my packing my own child'sfamilies like mine, who need summer child-care, will
lunch. They would not be reimbursed from thethank you.
food program for my child if she did not eat their